A compilation of essays on TCKs’ overseas and re-entry experiences written by some of the best known individuals in this field, this book is unlike other compilations on our website because these are not articles that have not been published elsewhere but essays written specifically for this book. It includes useful advice for parents seeking to help their children (especially teenagers) cope with the experience of returning to the U.S., a country often more
foreign to them than the host country. The chapter on “Religious Culture Shock” by Ruth Van Reken (an MK) will be of particular interest to missionary families.
A compilation of articles and poems written by and/or about TCKs, this book puts together some of the classic writings on the subject. Numerous articles offer insights on parenting in addition to giving a portrait of the TCK experience from various perspectives in this slim but valuable volume.
Except for a brief introduction to each chapter by the author, this book uses excerpts from interviews with thirteen adult TCKs to paint a picture of life as a TCK. It addresses some of the common strengths and struggles, as well as offering stories about what helped these TCKs overcome challenges they encountered, and what they would do differently if they raised their own children overseas. Some of the chapters are “Staying in Touch with Who I Was, When…” and “Serious Commitments, Marriage and Career,” and “Why Do I Feel so Migratory?”
Written by brothers who grew up as third-culture kids in various countries, this book is written to and for teens moving overseas. It addresses moving, school/education issues, culture shock, life overseas, and reentry. Most of the topics it covers are more applicable to TCKs from diplomatic or business families and those in a high socio-economic class. It is the only book of its kind, and much of it is relevant especially to those who will be living in cities with an established international/expatriate community. With stories from TCKs all over the world and advice from experts on international moves as well, this text is great resource.
This book on returning to one’s home culture offers different perspectives than most others. It is written for the broader expatriate world and discusses specific groups (peace corp, military, missionaries etc.). After a look at the stages of re-entry, the author considers the particular needs of the employee, the spouse and children.
This practical older book covers the re-entry process starting on the field. It talks about how to prepare and leave well, as well as how to adjust back in North America. It also offers lots of ideas on smoothing the transition for adults and children. The focus of this book seems to be more on the adult missionary and written for the parents of MKs.
