This autobiographical collection of essays was a joy to read. Adele Barlow is a TCK with Malaysian and Kiwi parents who grew up between Hong Kong and New Zealand. Her search for identity and meaning is a very relatable TCK issue and she writes about it in a fresh way, sharing anecdotes from her moves, relationships and therapy sessions.
I’ve read a lot of stories and essays about TCK identity and sometimes get tired of them but I enjoyed Barlow’s writing style and her candidness. I found myself cheering on her progress and eager to see the conclusions she came to in her self reflection.
What Makes Aussie Kids Tick a thorough and insightful overview of what to expect leaving Australia as a missionary family with kids. this book walks you step-by-step through the process preparing to leave, landing, and re-stabilizing as a family. It identifies the potential difficulties in the areas of emotions, logistics and family dynamics, and provides practical advice on navigating them. Of special interest is the discussion of Australian culture and how Australian MKs tend to interact with their “home” culture.
This book’s focus on the universal principles for navigating cross-cultural transitions as a family have allowed it to age well, despite the rapid changes in missions in the decades since its publishing. It is a good introduction to navigating the missionary life, especially from an Australian background, and would be most useful for families entering more traditional missions located in non-Western countries, and those in administration supporting them.
The contents include:
- It’s Time to Get Ready
- It’s Time to Go
- It’s Time to Work
- It’s Time to be a Family
- It’s Time to Choose (Exploring schooling options)
- It’s time to Part
- It’s Time to go to School
- It’s Time for Holidays
- It’s Time for Visitors
- It’s Time for Identification
- It’s Time to Leave
- It’s Time to Return
- It’s Time to Help (How the sending church can help their missionaries)
- It’s Time to Evaluate
Out of stock in online stores as of July 2022.
Ernie moves to an Aboriginal community in Northern Australia where his parents work at a hospital. He writes letters to his old friends in each of the 6 seasons telling what he & his new Aboriginal friends are doing. At the end we see that his old schoolmates are studying his new culture in school & have each tried something he’s written about. A creative but highly stylized story; part of a series.
Reading level: ages 6-9 years
Ten-year old Samantha is about to start her fifth school. After living in Nepal for several years, she and her family have returned “home” to Australia, but Sam has had a hard time fitting in.
Assigned to sit at a table with the “mean girls”, Sam feels excluded. When she is teased for ineptly explaining her parents’ jobs, she defends herself with a wild story about her mom, but that only makes things worse. As she gets in deeper trying to defend the lie the mocking gets meaner and Sam becomes more and more miserable until things finally reach a breaking point.
Though the story is about a young TCK the major theme of the book is how to recognize and handle subtle and overt bullying.
Ages 8-12
Available on Kindle here
Nam-Huong a Vietnamese refugee grieves the loss of her family and home. Unable to talk about her losses to the kids at school in Australia, she writes her real feelings in letters to her animal friends in Vietnam. Through a friendship with her kind teacher her grief finally finds expression, and her capacity for happiness again begins to unfold. This book is written in the yearning language of a child who has experienced great loss. Though Onion Tears is a refugee story rather than TCK, the grief of loss and moving is very relatable to TCKs and that’s why it is included on this site.
Reading level: age 8-12 years
